Alison Bayer
Dec 4, 20254 min read
When Anxious Attachment Is Really Avoidance of Intimacy: A Letter to the One Who Loves Too Hard
If you are reading this, there is a good chance you are someone who loves hard, attaches fast, and feels everything so intensely that when the person you care about pulls away, even slightly, it feels like a part of you is being ripped away too. The panic hits your chest, your thoughts start racing, and it feels like the ground beneath you shifts. I know that experience deeply because I have lived it too. I have been the woman who wrapped her entire identity around a relation
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